You just had a fascinating talk with an Aquarian and your head is spinning. The person is so kindhearted, broadminded, and quite a humanitarian.
You believe you have found your soul mate at last. Now how are you going to attract him past friendship? I will now give you a step-by-step guide to snagging an Aquarius.
What Attracts Aquarians
Don’t be too forward or pushy.
Aquarians are always polite, but just a wee bit elusive. They value their independence. Don’t blurt out your feelings. You will have to be slightly more subtle.
Appeal to the intellect of your Aquarian friend to start with. Looks should not be the only criteria. This will not get you the results you want. If you challenge them intellectually, in time, they will give you a physical challenge.
Play on their quality of compassion.
Aquarians are people lovers. They are tremendous humanitarians and they participate in different causes. Be a part of something for the greater good.
Regardless of which cause you volunteer for, your Aquarian friend will notice and respect you for it.
They enjoy belonging to clubs and social groups. So if you happen upon one you can both join, that has an aspect of doing-good involved, do it!
Try to eat out occasionally. However, try not to go to the average suburban nationwide chain restaurant. Search for places that are out of the mainstream.
Place your order for the most outlandish menu item. Your Aquarian adores a stimulating adventure. Be mysterious. Aquarians are interested by things that are “different” and outside the norm.
Develop an interest in things they are interested in.
Aquarians are well known for having a multitude of interests. Whether it’s winemaking, riding mountain bikes or learning to weave baskets, learn all you can about their hobbies.
Be prepared to talk about their favorite hobby at length, and with enthusiasm. Volunteer to help out in any way. If it’s winemaking, offer to help stomp the grapes!
Talk, talk, talk.
Since an Aquarius is an air sign, they are great at communicating. You can stay in touch with them by emailing, calling, texting, using IM, or even writing letters. Be clever. Be a little kooky. Keep in mind that Aquarians are just a little eccentric.
Tell the truth.
An Aquarius doesn’t lie or pretend to be something he or she is not. So be truthful with them. Don’t use your cheesy pickup lines. They will be absolutely turned off.
You will never entice an Aquarian to fall in love with you instantly. You have to be willing to ride it out. Aquarians tend to hide their emotions internally.
Love means finding room for another person, and as talked about at the beginning of this article, this sign is extremely independent. However, if you have the time, and the interest, you will discover loving an Aquarian can be quite a thrill.
By following the proper steps to draw in an Aquarius person, you are sure to begin a relationship filled with love, surprise, tolerance, and the occasional excitement.
Always remember not to make them feel hemmed in. Their desire to gain independence may lead them to take drastic measures.