Why, when and with whom we fall in love is a mysterious, wonderful process. What creates our romantic personalities? Why does love come our way sometimes and shun us at others.
Whether you’re single, married, or involved in a dating relationship, you’ll find the insights revealed in our Love & Romance Horoscope 2018 a helpful guide to making the most of love’s challenges and opportunities.
This report presents the planetary transits that influence three elements in your natal chart: The Moon, Venus and Pluto. These transits influence your potential for love and romance. Your heightened awareness of the world’s ever-changing cycles provides a planning edge you can use to your romantic advantage.
2019 love horoscope for all the signs of the zodiac with the emphasis on finding love in 2019
You just had a fascinating talk with an Aquarian and your head is spinning. The person is so kindhearted, broadminded, and quite a humanitarian.
You believe you have found your soul mate at last. Now how are you going to attract him past friendship? I will now give you a step-by-step guide to snagging an Aquarius.
What Attracts Aquarians
Don’t be too forward or pushy.
Aquarians are always polite, but just a wee bit elusive. They value their independence. Don’t blurt out your feelings. You will have to be slightly more subtle.
Appeal to the intellect of your Aquarian friend to start with. Looks should not be the only criteria. This will not get you the results you want. If you challenge them intellectually, in time, they will give you a physical challenge.
Play on their quality of compassion.
Aquarians are people lovers. They are tremendous humanitarians and they participate in different causes. Be a part of something for the greater good.
Regardless of which cause you volunteer for, your Aquarian friend will notice and respect you for it.
They enjoy belonging to clubs and social groups. So if you happen upon one you can both join, that has an aspect of doing-good involved, do it!
Try to eat out occasionally. However, try not to go to the average suburban nationwide chain restaurant. Search for places that are out of the mainstream.
Place your order for the most outlandish menu item. Your Aquarian adores a stimulating adventure. Be mysterious. Aquarians are interested by things that are “different” and outside the norm.
Develop an interest in things they are interested in.
Aquarians are well known for having a multitude of interests. Whether it’s winemaking, riding mountain bikes or learning to weave baskets, learn all you can about their hobbies.
Be prepared to talk about their favorite hobby at length, and with enthusiasm. Volunteer to help out in any way. If it’s winemaking, offer to help stomp the grapes!
Talk, talk, talk.
Since an Aquarius is an air sign, they are great at communicating. You can stay in touch with them by emailing, calling, texting, using IM, or even writing letters. Be clever. Be a little kooky. Keep in mind that Aquarians are just a little eccentric.
Tell the truth.
An Aquarius doesn’t lie or pretend to be something he or she is not. So be truthful with them. Don’t use your cheesy pickup lines. They will be absolutely turned off.
You will never entice an Aquarian to fall in love with you instantly. You have to be willing to ride it out. Aquarians tend to hide their emotions internally.
Love means finding room for another person, and as talked about at the beginning of this article, this sign is extremely independent. However, if you have the time, and the interest, you will discover loving an Aquarian can be quite a thrill.
By following the proper steps to draw in an Aquarius person, you are sure to begin a relationship filled with love, surprise, tolerance, and the occasional excitement.
Always remember not to make them feel hemmed in. Their desire to gain independence may lead them to take drastic measures.
So you know this Capricorn. He’s so amusing. Has a very dry sense of humor. Sometimes he’s a little too serious. But, you believe he’s amazing. You are so into being more than merely friends. How do you get him to notice you? Here are some steps you can use to snag a Capricorn.
Don’t Be Late.
If you are the kind of person that is constantly running fifteen minutes late, you might want to set your clocks ahead so you will be right on schedule. Your Capricorn is really conscious of money. And as the saying goes, time is money. So, don’t squander any of their precious moments. They will view you as frivolous and not worth the bother.
Stimulate their minds.
Capricorns love several topics. If you can converse seriously about art, music, theatre, or politics, you will get them to notice you. Leave your extreme opinions to yourself. Capricorns are, if nothing, conventional. They will not tolerate bizarre opinions very well.
Practical gifts pay in spades.
The emphasis being “practical” here. A Capricorn appreciates good quality, but, also, good value. An excellent idea here would be a discounted hardback. Historical biographies or money-oriented books might be a homerun. The wrong idea would be pricey cologne. Your Capricorn is way too aware of how much everything costs for him to respect you splurging on overpriced items to make a good impression.
Live in reality.
Capricorns reside in the real world and will not tolerate anything done on the spur of the moment. So if you are an impulsive kind of person, you better get yourself another sign. And also, any dreamers need not apply. Keep your feet firmly planted if you want to get a Capricorn.
Be as funny as he is.
Although your Capricorn may seem a little serious, and well, sometimes Eeyeorish, he really does dig humor. He uses his sense of humor to give him a lift when life is getting him down. Capricorns possess amazing wit and will shock you at how amusing they can be. If you can make him laugh, he will see potential in you.
Keep your promises.
Don’t promise to meet your Capricorn at the Cineplex and suddenly bail out on him. If you make arrangements, keep them. Capricorns do not like a person who can not follow through.
Support their goals.
Capricorns need money, success, authority, and social status. If you can not be supportive of their quest, you will be forgotten quickly. So, do not rib them about how much time they spend working, or how thrifty they are apt to be. You will wound their ego and not forgiven.
>If you follow this roadmap to getting a Capricorn, and you can give him the support his somewhat glum personality demands, you will uncover yourself a true companion who won’t cheat on or leave you. Earn his faith, and you’ll earn yourself a Capricorn’s hear
It’s a cliché. The old “What’s your sign, baby?” It conjures up images of bad 70’s sitcoms of men with oversized collars wearing bellbottoms and platform shoes. But there is something to knowing someone’s sign. By knowing a guy’s sign, you can be on your way to finding Mr. Right through astrology love compatibility.
What are compatible astrology signs?
In astrology, people are born under 12 distinct sun signs. People born into a certain sun sign share some basic features in common.
12 sun sign birth periods
- Aries: part of March 20th into April 20th
- Taurus: Part of April 20th into May 21st
- Gemini: Part of May 21st into June 21st
- Cancer: Part of June 21st into July 22nd
- Leo: Part of July 22nd into August 23rd
- Virgo: Part of August 23rd into September 23rd
- Libra: Part of September 23rd into October 23rd
- Scorpio: Part of October 23rd into November 22nd
- Sagittarius: Part of November 22nd into December 21st
- Capricorn: Part of December 21st into January 20th
- Aquarius: Part of Janaury 20th into February 19th
- Pisces: Part of February 19th into March 20th
For starters, to find Mr. Right, you are interested in which sign you would be most compatible. You can do this by figuring out the signs that complement each other.
How do you find out which signs complement each other?
Well, you figure out what natural element your sign falls under. You see, the twelve signs of the zodiac are further divided into four groups containing three signs each. These four groups are the elements of nature, Fire, Earth, Air and Water.
So, three of the signs belong to the Fire element and are called Fire signs. They are Aries, Leo, and Sagittarius. Fire signs are often characterized as active and enthusiastic people.
Three signs belong to the Earth element and are called Earth signs. They are Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn. Earth signs are often characterized as practical and stable.
The Air element contains the Air signs and these are Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius. These signs are known as great communicators and very intellectual.
The final three signs belong to the Water element. The Water signs are Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces. Water sign people are known to be emotional and intuitive.
You can start to find your astrology love compatibility by finding the element that blends well with your own.
If you are a Fire sign, a relationship with an Air sign will blend well. Fire needs oxygen to burn, and Air is warmed by Fire. See the correlation? Fire does not blend with Earth or Water. Think about what happens when you throw Earth or Water on Fire. It puts out the fire, right?
Similarly, Earth and Water Signs blend well together. The Earth needs Water to keep it moist so things can grow. Without water, the Earth becomes cracked and barren (think a desert).
Of course, there are many more aspects that go into astrology love compatibility. To dive deeper, you should really consider having an entire astrology compatibility chart done on you and your potential Mr. Right.
Finding the person that is perfect for you is not an easy task. You may meet a person that appears to complement you on every level. However, during the early stages of a relationship, things usually seem rosy. To really determine if you will be compatible in the long run, keep reading to see if you and your partner have a true astrology match.
Most people know that there are 12 signs in the Western Zodiac and reading horoscopes is a fun way to get some basic information about your day or month. But the study of astrology actually goes much deeper than that. Very specific astrology birth charts are created that provide a much more detailed analysis and insight into a person’s individual personality traits, qualities, and behaviors. Here we are going to focus at a high level on the Sun Sign, i.e., where the Sun was in relation to the Earth on your birthday.
- ARIES: Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini and Aquarius.
- TAURUS: Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer and Pisces.
- GEMINI: Libra, Aquarius, Aries and Leo.
- CANCER: Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus and Virgo.
- LEO: Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini and Libra.
- VIRGO: Taurus, Capricorn, Cancer and Scorpio.
- LIBRA: Gemini, Aquarius, Leo and Sagittarius.
- SCORPIO: Cancer, Pisces, Virgo and Capricorn.
- SAGITTARIUS: Leo, Aries, Libra and Aquarius.
- CAPRICORN: Virgo, Taurus, Scorpio and Pisces.
- AQUARIUS: Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius and Aries.
- PISCES: Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn and Taurus.
- CAPRICORN: Aquarius, Leo, Gemini, Sagittarius
- AQUARIUS: Capricorn, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces
- PISCES: Libra, Aries, Aquarius, Leo
- ARIES: Taurus, Scorpio, Virgo Pisces
- TAURUS: Aries, Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius
- GEMINI: Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, Taurus
- CANCER: Aquarius, Leo, Gemini, Sagittarius
- LEO: Capricorn, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces
- VIRGO: Libra, Aries, Aquarius, Leo
- LIBRA: Taurus, Scorpio, Virgo Pisces
- SCORPIO: Aries, Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius
- SAGITTARIUS: Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio, Taurus
What happens if both partners are the same sign? Well, depending upon the dominate traits of each person it could go either way.
Where do you and your mate or potential mate fit? What if you are a Scorpio and your potential mate is a Gemini? According to this data, you are incompatible. You are not an astrology match. But, luckily for you, a lot of information goes into how this information is determined and many other factors are taken into account when you get a more detailed analysis in your astrology birth chart. This information gives you a starting point, but it’s not as black and white as these tables show.
Whether you fit in either section above, a more detailed analysis will help you see where your traits do and do not complement each other. To see if you and your partner are truly right for each other, get a more detailed analysis and find out if you make a true astrology match.
What Does an Astrology Compatibility Chart Tell You?
Can a Leo live with a Libra? Can a Cancer co-habitate with a Capricorn? What kind of a person would you be happiest with in the long run? You can find out with an Astrology Compatiblity Chart.
Have you ever been in a relationship that just seemed like so much work? Everything seemed perfect on the outside, but on the inside, something just didn’t click? It could be that his or her astrology birth chart didn’t jive with yours.Example of a Natal Birth Chart
Or have you ever had that instant connection with someone who on the outside seems all wrong for you, but on the inside really seems to “get” you? It could be that his or her astrology birth chart did jive with yours.
Through an astrology compatibility chart, you can gain insight into a relationship. You will better understand the strengths as well as the challenges so you can maximize your happiness. You will better understand how to work around potential conflicts and create harmony.
For example, did you know if you were born a Leo (from July 21st to August 21st ), you probably will have a difficult relationship with a Scorpio (someone born from October 21st to November 21st)? It’s not to say it would be impossible for a Leo and a Scorpio to get along and have a good relationship. But a Leo probably would get along better with a Sagittarius or Aries right off the bat. An astrology compatibility chart will tell you why.
What you need for an astrology compatibility chart
You can download these compatibility charts in several places online. What you will need to know beforehand is your birth date, birth time (hour, minute a.m. or p.m.), and birth city, state and country for both you and your significant other.
What you will get back is an analysis of both birth charts that interprets the astrological connection between the both of you. This is also called Synastry or the art of relationship astrology. It has been around for several thousand years.
Through synastry, you will discover your similarities as well as your differences. To understand why synastry works, you need to understand the basics of astrology.
In astrology, the belief is that each being is born with a personal birth chart. This chart, in actuality is an imprint of the energies of the planets and signs as they were positioned at the precise time of birth. This planet energy helps develop us physically and emotionally.
When we form special relationships, our individual energies interact with their individual energies creating interplay that is both complex and unique.
So, that is why sometimes, when you meet someone, you get along with them right from the get go. Sometimes the attraction makes sense, and sometimes it absolutely doesn’t. Call it “instant chemistry” or “love at first sight.” But you can figure out the why’s and how’s of this relationship through astrology.
So, whether you have been in a relationship for a while, or are just starting one, an astrology compatibility chart can help you understand your relationship. Because it is through understanding that you can avoid conflicts and be a harmonious and positive couple.
You have an opportunity for metamorphosis and growth in love this week, as Venus sextiles Pluto on Monday, encouraging you to look at the deep subconscious forces that lie behind your emotional responses to others. A sextile aspect is an opportunity to work toward changing your behavior patterns. It offers the courage to deal with your emotions, and gain better control of them.
If you’re looking for love, this is a week of beginnings. If your Sun Sign is Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Aquarius, or Pisces, you will enjoy additional opportunities in meeting someone. Thanks to an Aquarian Venus, an Arien Mars, and Friday’s Venus-Uranus conjunction, couples are free of hang-ups and able to enjoy more honest and open interactions.
Egos can sometimes get in the way of relationships. Now is a good time to look at how difficult it is to maintain your individuality when you share a deep soul-union with another. In such a relationship, your lives are often wrapped up in one another. While it can be difficult to balance individuality and partnership, we should relish the challenge.
This week’s Mars-Pluto trine offers you dynamic, ambitious, and confident energy. Take a deep breath and enjoy being you. This trine also gives you the ability to both understand and enjoy your significant other.
A wonderful example of the Mars-Pluto trine can be found in Clint Weyand’s words, from “Thank You for Being” “My love must be willing to let you grow in directions I haven’t traveled. If I don’t give you this freedom, my love is only a thinly disguised method for controlling you.”
The dark phase of the Moon — when the Moon disappear from sight for a few days — occurs around three days before the New Moon. According to astrologer Demetra George, this phase carries a twelfth house significance.
Dark Moon periods are times to bridge the old and the new by healing issues from your past. In turn, you are rewarded with empowerment. Those who are apprehensive of the astrological twelfth house, or of the mysterious Saturn, Pluto, or South Node influences, often feel a sense of alienation, confusion, or loss during these periods.
We attach ourselves to many things. Somewhere in your home, you probably have things you’ve carried with you from place to place for many years. We may also attach ourselves with deep roots, to cars, homes, jobs, and friends.
ARIES (Mar. 21st-Apr. 20th):
Between now and the end of March, you will personally dominate your environment. Thanks to this week’s Mars-Pluto trine, both passion and sensuality are highly stimulated. When it comes to love, be prepared to deep and possibly unsettling reflection (courtesy of Pluto) as you investigate the philosophical underpinnings of your relationship. Playful Aries will be looking for love this week. You’ll be tremendously competitive if someone else casts his or her eye toward your love interest. You’ll enjoy the edge, however, and sparks could become flames.
TAURUS (Apr. 21st-May 20th):
When Taurus’ ruling planet, Venus, conjuncts Uranus, you’ll get itchy for excitement. You and your significant other should plan something thrilling this week. Forget just new and different — we’re talking about real thrills here. Without distractions, Bulls can get cranky. If you’re looking for love, strong vibrations exist in the workplace. People in positions of power may wield that control over you. Wise Taureans will tread carefully this week. Things may get exciting, but they aren’t on a stable track.
GEMINI (May 21st-June 21st):
Your ruling planet, Mercury, continues to travel backwards. Geminis should be planning changes, but not acting on them until mid-March. When it comes to love, Mercury is in a very difficult aspect with the asteroids Lilith and Hekate. This isn’t the time to have serious discussions unless you’ve thought things over very carefully. A Mercury-Pluto square seconds this motion and encourages you to avoid obsessive thoughts. Don’t close your mind to the whole picture. If you’re looking for love, it’s important to go beyond surface impressions and to take your time in getting to know someone better.
CANCER (June 22nd-July 22nd):
Moon Children get an opportunity to experience asteroid power this week. The asteroid Toro adds assertiveness. No one is going to take advantage of a Moon Child this week. When it comes to love, the asteroid Odysseus encourages you to carefully handle your resources and to solve any ongoing problems in romance. The asteroid Silesia suggests that you’ll be upset if your partner doesn’t recognize your efforts to keep the relationship on track. If you’re looking for love, you have the determination and desire to experience new things. Your increased sensuality is icing on the cake.
LEO (July 23rd-Aug. 22nd):
Wednesday’s Sun-Mercury conjunction puts Leo’s focus on communication. When it comes to love, be aware that the closer a Pisces Sun gets to a retrograde Mercury, the easier it is for a Leo’s mind to short-circuit from emotional overload. You and your significant other could be dealing with misunderstandings this week. Your ruling planet, the Sun, squares tenacious Pluto, and enhances the potential for executive leadership. Unfortunately, this is something that belongs in the boardroom, not the bedroom. If you’re looking for love, the Venus-Mars aspect offers opportunity, especially during the first three days of the week.
VIRGO (Aug. 23rd-Sept. 22nd):
Your ruling planet, Mercury, conjuncts a softhearted Sun this week, and Virgo’s mind works overtime. Your positive thoughts should bring a beneficial outcome. When it comes to love, your spontaneity is inhibited as you delve into the philosophical and psychological aspects of your relationship. Yes, you are right — change is in the air. If you’re looking for love, the Sun-Mercury aspect, along with the asteroid Cupido in your house of new romances, helps you to attract others with your wit and humor. You will shine brightly this week.
LIBRA (Sept. 23rd-Oct. 23rd):
An independent Venus works wonderfully for Libra, and you should feel at ease when it comes to love this week. Mars remains in your serious seventh house of relationships, and ensures that you and your mate will continue to enjoy lively and active times. Pluto only increases the passion. If you’re looking for love, the unusual and unexpected is the name of the game, and thanks to Pluto’s sextile, your magnetic appeal increases. A pleasant Sun-Mercury aspect increases your confidence.
SCORPIO (Oct. 24th-Nov. 22nd):
Your ruling planet, Pluto, in a benevolent trine with Mars, assures Scorpios of dynamic magnetism. When it comes to love this week, you’ll wow your mate with your energy. The cosmic connection between a sensitive Sun and Mercury Retrograde, however, suggests that Scorpios need to be careful. Those penetrating thoughts could turn into brutally frank words and actions that force your significant other to respond defensively. If you’re looking for love, step carefully, and respect the personal boundaries of others. Add this to the potential for poor judgment, and you could be looking in all the wrong places.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23rd-Dec. 21st):
When it comes to love this week, a practical Jupiter in a challenging aspect with a sensitive Neptune creates the possibility for emotional confusion. Sagittarians need extra space in relationships, and you should make your mate aware of this. If you’re looking for love, Mars in your house of new romances enthusiastically supports your quest. Mars’ conjunction with the asteroids Hekate and Lilith encourages you to seek a union that is filled with both equality and passion.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22nd-Jan. 20th):
When it comes to love this week, your ruling planet, Saturn, and electric Uranus increase tension. You are torn between your normal devotion to duty and responsibility, and a strong desire to let your hair down. Irritability may surface if your needs aren’t fulfilled. The asteroid Odysseus encourages new perspectives. Stay tuned, because there’s more to come. With a cautious Saturn in your fifth house of new romances, you have to work harder to relax. If you’re looking for love, stay on top of your judgments, because they could be slightly off this week.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 21st-Feb. 18th):
When it comes to love, Aquarians are high-strung this week, thanks to Venus, Uranus, and Saturn stirring up mixed emotions and assuring mixed signals. Your mate needs to understand that emotional expression is harder for you now. If you’re looking for love, you are in luck. Uranus trines the asteroid Tristan this week, suggesting that an unforgettable romantic experience awaits you.
PISCES (Feb. 19th-Mar. 20th):
If you’re looking for love this week, you may easily be led astray. The asteroid Toro in your house of new romances gives you assertive courage, but you may not handle it well. When it comes to love, your ruling planet, Neptune, and practical Jupiter provide extra feelings of affection this week. Neptune, along with the asteroid Ops, makes an increase — or expansion — more likely for Pisces, but you have to be careful of what you are trying to increase.
The future is an important area to focus on when considering romance, love and all of the action it brings into your world this May 2018, Aries. Consider what you long for…and what you need. It might be time to consider making a deeper commitment…or initiating a connection with someone who shares your spirituality, your life philosophies or your ideals. Look at someone from a different vantage point. Get to know someone through conversations that center on the possibilities that lie ahead….and the realities that exist around you. Encourage camaraderie and friendship.
The opportunity to capture passion is heading in to your life at the end of this forecast period. It’s a raw and driving need to change, to experience, to explore and to feel alive, empowered and captivated. Knowing this ahead of time allows you to fine tune what you really want from love, from sensuality, from passion, from commitments. It gives you the chance to chase away old insecurities, to work out and heal old wounds to be assured that you are operating with your highest ideals and dreams and desires in your focus.
Don’t gravitate between what can be in your dreams and what you see in your reality when it comes to romance, passion and partnership this May 2018, Gemini. Find a way to stand directly in the middle and learn to alter your perceptions and create new fantasies that more truly fit the possibilities that exist. Give someone the benefit of the doubt. Let someone know you care. Worry less…enjoy more. Stay flexible and be willing to look into the corners that some powerful cosmic lightning brings into your view this week. They hide the sweetest and most unexpected forms of magic.
Not one thing has to change in your outer partnerships or romances, Cancer, yet everything can change…none the less. The key is in how you perceive situations, how you embrace possibilities in the realm of your dreams and how daring you are in believing that the impossible…might be very, very probable. Nothing has to change and everything can change…if you let go of fears and doubts…worries and old wounds. The universe has a powerful and magical way of bringing passion into your life this week…don’t lock the door to your heart.
It pays to know what you most desire this week, Leo. It pays to know what makes you feel passionate, alive, driven and inspired. Likewise it pays to know your truths and who you are and from those things you discover to create and invent an ideal, a purpose, a dream, a vision. There is some powerful, driven, compelling and exciting energy heading in at the end of this forecast period and it enhances your ability to create your romantic world from your passions, from your truths, from your desires in ways that you can live it, experience and walk into the world with it. Know yourself…inside and out.
It’s been about home, ultimately, Virgo. It’s been around what constitutes security and safety and fidelity and trust. You’ve reworked expectations and dreams. You’ve sorted through passions and desires and this May sees some much needed outer movement that rewards you for all the efforts you’ve invested in self knowing..and inner clarity. Passion comes home…enjoy the fires it creates in your dreams.
Spend some time reconnecting with your passions early this May 2018, Libra. Look through what they are attached to, how you nurture and protect them. Understanding those truths that are part of love and romance and all your expectations of around helps you define where you can bring change in healthy and self empowering ways into this important realm of your world. The end of this month brings a push to explore, transform and live those things that capture your soul..be aware first, of what they are.
The universe has been compelling and urging and sometimes forcing you to let go and to trust and to worry a little less about your feelings and your heart and keeping them forever safe, Scorpio. If you haven’t felt some wounds around love…you’re missing important experiences your soul needs to grow. This week wonderful things happen and you’ll want those barriers and self defenses down.
There is no such thing as perfection, particularly not in something so intimate and important as love, Sagittarius, yet still..we strive for it. In many ways, however, you are far closer to understanding what your own ideals for romance are and, more importantly, you are more realistic, more confident, more at peace with those ideals. Something you’ve been wanting to go after becomes possible later in this May 2018…be gentle with that need for perfection.
The exploration of love and possibilities attached to love still resides within the realm of thoughts and words during the week ahead, Aquarius. There is something divine about this period that allows you to bring some of your most favorite things (words, ideas, ideals and visions) into the same place as love and romance reside. Connections are spontaneous and exciting.Be a little bolder, make the first move and engage an interesting someone in a heart centered conversation.
Be just a little bolder this May 2018, Pisces, even if you don’t feel particularly bold inside. Be just a little more self expressive and clear with your dreams. In some way, small or large, you have a new way to go after your romantic and passionate desires, you have more empowering ways to express yourself and…more compelling ways to create passion and fulfillment. Exciting things are underway by the end of this month.
When it comes to love, emotional Venus and Mars enhance your need for roots, and loving desire is strong on the domestic front. You’d better cancel the plans you made for a party on Friday April 6th 2018. You and your mate will want to be alone. Privacy is a necessity, in fact.
If you’re looking for love, it’s because you need someone to love. Right now, you don’t care if it is a good union, just one that offers togetherness. April 12, 23 and 26 are your best days to find someone who can calm you.
When it comes to love, Taureans are feeling rather than thinking this month, as your ruling planet, Venus, and passionate Mars enter the third house of communication. A major challenge may unsettle you on April 20. You could find that something that sounded exciting isn’t. You and your mate agree, “That’s what we get for placing too much importance on tangibles.”
If you are looking for love this April 2018, you are using timeworn lines that may no longer work. Update your repertoire before the weekend. This could be special.
When it comes to love, caring Venus and unsubtle Mars enter your second house of personal resources. If you haven’t been looking too deeply at your union, they won’t let you continue that posture. Make contact. If you can’t motivate yourself to do it, your mate will urge you to action. Tuesday could be enlightening, and Sunday downright confusing.
Geminis who are looking for love are wired, and searching with a short attention span. It’s going to take someone who radiates excitement to get you to land. Your best days are April 10 and 22. That’s a time when opposites attract.
This is a beautiful and romantic time for Moon Children. A caring Venus and a passionate Mars put a sexy aura around your first house of self-image. The first weekend could be exciting. You’ll find time for affectionate closeness, but still get the yard work done.
If you’re looking for love, you’re somewhat impressionable this april 2018. The good news is that you radiate sensuality because Mars puts you in an excitable mood. Friday’s Full Moon creates chaotic conditions. You could be drawn to someone who ordinarily wouldn’t attract you.
Pleasure loving Venus and passionate Mars enter your twelfth house this week. When it comes to love, your unconscious fights the desire to hide sensitivity and hurt feelings, while your ego wonders if love is really there. This is a dramatic house, Leo. This is the house where you get your desire for security fulfilled. Before the weekend, you’ll want to build your ego with easy loving.
If you’re looking for love this month, you feel playful and are attracted to someone’s off beat wit. This is a fun connection, not one that is attached to the emotions — that is unless you meet over the weekend. On Wednesday through Friday dust-off your dancing shoes.
When it comes to love, Virgo is anxious this week, though your partner wouldn’t know it. If your house is in order, nerves shouldn’t be an ordeal, but it if isn’t — look out. Take a break before tackling organization. You’ll probably need it.
If you’re looking for love, the finer things in life appeal now. Good connections could be made at an art gallery, an expensive department stores, the gourmet isle of the supermarket, or an online chat concerning succulent truffles.
When it comes to love, Libras are highly sensitive to vibes this week. You’ll react to emotion strongly, something that’s usually not your style. This is a temporary insecurity. Know that the feelings are mutual. Perhaps it is time for the passive partner to be assertive, and vice versa — at least until issues are settled.
If you’re looking for love, glitz and glamour aren’t your bag. You’re into the stable and sedate and you could find it Wednesday through Friday. When romantic Venus and emotional love-seeking Mars enter Cancer on Sunday 15th, however, surging sensations sweep you and that special someone off your practical feet.
Loving Venus and passionate Mars enter your ninth house of the higher mind this month, marking a time when silent Scorpios are more open than usual. Deep bonds help heal rifts, clear confusion, and build bridges where emotional isolation once ruled. You both feel loving — not to mention lovable.
If you’re looking for love, a highly emotional meeting has you sure that you’ve found a soulmate. Take a deep breath, center yourself, and remember that this is a human being, subject to flaws. If you aren’t careful, you could be disappointed later.
Expend your passion early in the month. In fact the first 2 days of the month could be memorable. When Venus and Mars enter the emotional sign of Cancer, normally free Centaurs cling like boa constrictors. This will probably surprise your lover. He or she is used to your standard request for more freedom.
Sexy Sagittarians who are looking for love could overindulge this week. The attraction may be toward as many as four different people. If you move too fast, you are apt to give expansive promises. Be careful. You’re risking breach of contract here. You should keep those lips tightly zipped this weekend.
When it comes to love, Capricorns are magnetic and sensitive now. Relaxed unions can handle both practicality and passion. If it seems that your mate is devoted to making you smile, you are right. You’ve been pretty stuffy lately. The weekend could be quite special.
Eager Sea Goats just received a dose of sensitivity and heightened sexuality. This could be useful if you are looking for love. The first of the week should be good, but avoid the search around midweek. The weekend Moon in your sign says, “Who can say no to such charm!”
You might as well take advantage of the good vibes before the weekend, Aquarius. Fall in step with Venus’ love rhythms and heightened passions before the goddess of love and Mars, the entrepreneur of passion, move into emotional Cancer. That passage may leave you in a defensive mode, fighting for space.
It’s an excitable Water Bearer who looks for love this week. You are likely to experience a sudden turn-on after an intense attraction. On Wednesday through Friday 13th look for new stimulation. Friday’s Full Moon suggests an exciting time as the Universe finally conjures up a kindred spirit.
When it comes to love, Fish are in nesting mode, and tuned in to their mates’ feelings. Past tension is erased, and you no longer feel that you’ve been rudely pulled down to earth with mundane matters. Dreams make music. Friday’s 13th Full Moon inspires yearning, but neither of you have any idea what the guiding vision is. Instead, you hug in the glow of the Moon, and try to figure out the message.
If you’re looking for love, you’re devoted to the search. Being without a partner isn’t your preferred lifestyle. Your romantic intuition works best on Monday and Tuesday. Over end og the month, others pour out their feelings because they trust you to understand, and of course you do.
Compatible . . . (1) capable of coexisting in harmony; congruous; concordant; consistent; not repugnant.
(2) so related that both (or all) may hold or be true.
The statement above is just your regular old garden variety dictionary definition of the word “compatible”. Very straight forward. As a baseline reference in choosing a mate, one would think that “compatibility” would be uppermost in everyone’s mind.
But it isn’t, perhaps because it is too simple to think in terms of harmony in daily life. It may sound dangerously dull. I can fix that. Let me muddy the concept up a bit and give it some appeal.
To begin with, the entire concept of compatibility as applied to romantic relationships has to do with day-to-day contentment, mundane happiness. Too blah?
The definition given above implies that a stable, harmonious atmosphere between two people is the hallmark of a compatible match.
It doesn’t say anything about being gaga nutso infatuated with someone or living in an endless passion drama. But it does point to a union in which partners may “hold true” to their inner natures without contradicting one another.
That makes sense, because the word “compatible” is from the latin root for “compassion”. So . . . compatibility in a relationship must have something to do with remaining authentically one’s self (not being contradicted in one’s essence) while “feeling with” someone else’s self.
Not enough sizzle there? Still and all . . . most people would admit that “compatibility” it is a pretty decent basis for a marriage or a long friendship.
Unfortunately, not nearly enough people make this the goal of their relationships. The reason is that we are enculturated to found intimate relationships solely on the basis of attraction, with scant concern for compatibility.
Yes, almost all relationships begin with attraction, but, fools that we are, we seem to think that is the end when it is really just the beginning.
To make my point more sharply all I have to do is point out that I am deeply attracted to great salsa, too. But eating salsa for breakfast lunch and dinner is not harmonious to my stomach.
Such a diet contradicts other aspects of my welfare. Attraction is great, but in a committed relationship (like a marriage) you have to eat that attraction for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
It is primarily a spice, a condiment, something to flavor the solid food we need on a regular basis. Without it, things might taste pretty blah, that’s true. But I bet you couldn’t live on salsa, either.
Alone, it is not enough to sustain human life. Once we are reassured it is on the table we still have to have a full meal to carry us through the days and weeks and months of life ahead of us.
But as I said . . . most marriages are founded on the salsa, uh . . . I mean attraction . . . which is sparked in the first few weeks of a relationship rather than on the seven food groups . . . uh . . . I mean compatibility, which takes a while to uncover.
lot of people know what is attractive to them but don’t have a clue what makes them deeply gratified and consistently satisfied day after day after day.
Frankly, many of us have not experienced enough of it to form a basis of comparison. Some people don’t even consider happiness possible. Daily — yes daily happiness, I mean. Out of the question!
The reason so many people don’t know what life conditions are required for their own happiness is because they don’t know very much about their own basic temperament and essential emotional needs.
They wouldn’t recognize a fundamental need if it bit them in the ass, so innured are they to accepting dull misery as their lot in life. So . . . lots of people know what they are attracted to, but few people know why or how it is related to their most basic needs.
This is the cart-before-the-horse approach, knowing more about the taste of salsa than we do about the unavoidable demands of our bodies and souls.
There is simply an inadequate fund of knowledge in the land about basic temperament needs. But there are ways to fix that. And the first way is to deeply consider what are the conditions in which you are likely to feel pretty darned good just about every day of your life.
Assuming that there are normal stresses and crises of life . . . what intimate atmosphere is required for you to bloom consistently? And then begin to put more energy into finding a blooming environment for yourself than in chasing the salsa. (Just assume that the condiment will be included.)
This means that as you date and meet new people, you will have to pay as much attention to yourself as to them. You will have to be delving more deeply into who you are at the deepest level. Because that is the level which will be affected by your choice of companion or mate . . . on a daily basis.
In addition to plain old self reflection, there are many resources available to assist you in understanding and articulating your own basic temperament requirements.
There are lots of tools for exploring compatibility on many levels. It is within your power to identify the conditions under which you will bloom consistently.
General overview for September 2018.
This month of September is probably going to be a tricky one to say the least. There are only 10 positive alignments compared to only 11 negative ones. We may find ourselves pulled in various directions due to there being 5 oppositions occurring this month. There is so much planetary activity that we may become dizzy by the minute. Some of may be confronted with reality checks or pushed to our limits. It depends on our level of maturity and the ability to stand tall despite the chaos going on around us.
This month starts with a hard angle between Mars and Saturn which is not the best start, however 2 days later the Sun shines on mighty Jupiter and all looks well again with the world. Venus also stands out in the crowd, despite being retrograde, and makes a total of 6 planetary alignments. The most notable one is the close conjunction with the life-giving Sun, which is just beautiful. For those who have never fallen in love, if you meet someone around Saturday 18 September, the person will prove to be the love of your life. It is a special time and my specific recommendation this month is to reach out to those you love. It doesn’t matter if you wear your heart on your sleeve, just go for it.
Moving right along……………………….
In chronological order there are various changes in the heavens this month and they are: Mercury will enter Leo on Sunday 5 September and remain in that sign up until 19 September; Jupiter turns direct on Tuesday 7 September at 9 degrees and 55 minutes of Sagittarius; Mars will enter Gemini on 7 September and remain in this sign up until 29 September; Venus retrogrades back into Leo on Thursday 9 September and remains in this sign up until 8 October; there will be a New Moon on Monday 13 September at 19 degrees of Leo; Mercury will enter Virgo on Sunday 19 September and remain in this sign up until 5 September; the life-giving Sun will enter Virgo on Thursday 23 September and remain in this sign up until 22 September; and lastly there will be a Full Moon on Tuesday 28 September, with the Sun at 4 degrees Virgo and the Moon at 4 degrees Pisces.
Mercury will enter Leo on Sunday 5 September and remain in that sign up until 19 September. This could focus lots of newsy items connected to the television and movie industry or perhaps focussing on matters to do with children and their welfare. An orphanage or children’s hospital may receive more focus or notoriety than usual. A young person from a royal background or who is the child of a famous celebrity or other VIP may also be in the news.
Jupiter turns direct on Tuesday 7 September at 9 degrees and 55 minutes of Sagittarius. After having been in retrograde phase for the last several months, this will bring a renewed opportunity to restore our faith in ourselves and in the world. Those who feel they have been tested by the adversities going on around them will start to realise that the bigger picture is what is important and that mostly, we are mere mortals, and therefore do not have access to the mysteries that the Gods have in store for us. Those however, who are gifted on the psychic level will know that some of these mysteries and plans can be tapped from the Universal database of information.
Mars will enter Gemini on 7 September and remain in this sign up until 29 September. During this time some people may enjoy debating and or even arguing, just for arguments sake. There may be some distress associated with twin births during this time. News generally will be relayed in a hurry and for those who rush headlong into battle, the throng will be vicious, especially verbally. Avoid noisy crowds or people bragging or making trouble for themselves. News items will focus on people in groups, demonstrators and those who wish to be heard, despite how aggravating it may be for the audience.
Venus retrogrades back into Leo on Thursday 9 September and remains in this sign up until 8 October. If you want to impress someone, perhaps by throwing a huge and lavish party, do it during the next few weeks, and it will be hugely successful. Those who focus on glamour, beauty, fashion, art, music and theatre will be able to harmonise with this transit of Venus in this sign. There may also be some love unions that hit the headlines because of the spectacular entrance they make at a grand occasion. Someone in royalty may declare their love for someone. Those in the entertainment industry will be busy and productive during this time and we may see a focus on romantic movies more than any other style. Some people may tend to wear their hearts on their sleeves.
There will be a New Moon on Monday 13 September at 19 degrees of Leo. This can put the spotlight on fun, entertainment and royalty. We can also be more ego orientated and those seeking the limelight will be more noticed if their attire is colourful, and this will set them aside from all the other people dressed in shades of grey.
Mercury will enter Virgo on Sunday 19 September and remain in this sign up until 5 September. There will tend to be more focus on health care issues, the hospital system and matters associated with hygiene and cleanliness. There could be some contamination in the water system or air conditioning systems come to light or to do with plumbing and drainage systems.
The life-giving Sun will enter Virgo on Thursday 23 September and remain in this sign up until 22 September. This puts the focus on services and health issues and people in the public service. There could be a focus of news related to these matters that bring one particular item into the spotlight. This is a good time to spring clean, get tidy, get more organised and perhaps even focus on a new health regime. Someone currently working in any of these related fields may receive a promotion or other assistance up the ladder of success.
There will be a Full Moon on Tuesday 28 September, with the Sun at 4 degrees Virgo and the Moon at 4 degrees Pisces. If you have personal points at this degree you can anticipate that something you have been seeking the answer to will suddenly come to light, though in a very mysterious way. It is a time to look past the apparent facade and see what magic and clarity of vision we can experience.
Uranus is still retrograde and remains in this phase up until 24 November. Uranus is the inventor and the discoverer of places beyond our imagination. We may try to re-discover how we can tap into our own unique imagination and realise our true potential and capabilities. We may have denied some of the things that could be and now we may investigate and discover what really is possible.
Neptune is still retrograde and remains in this phase up until 31 October this year. Neptune is the planet of high ideals and elusion. It is also the planet that dissolves situations including ice, icebergs, snow and hail. It can also produce mud slides. This planet was the pivotal planet in the event chart of the landslide in Thredbo. Whilst Jupiter retrograde may have seen many of us go through of period of questioning whether we have enough faith to sustain us, Neptune retrograde may lead some of us to question our ideals and our views on reality. This is also the planet related to drugs and alcohol. There may be far more people finding secret places to hide their trade, and this will make it harder to track those bringing illegal substances in and out of the various countries.
Pluto is still retrograde and will remain in this phase up until 6 September. Pluto is the transformer of the zodiac, and will literally turn your life around when making alignments to your own personal planets. However, when in retrograde phase it allows you the opportunity, once again to re-assess your current motives, your passions, your intimate relationships and your attitude towards life, death, and even sex, to decide if what you have chosen in recent times is for your overall good and development. Personally I prefer it when Pluto is in direct motion, but as I have said before, we can’t always have the planets where we want them or going in the direction we may prefer. Utilise this time to delve into your subconscious, explore your deepest psyche and uncover elements that you thought were hidden, even from yourself, and analyse them as if your life depended on it. The revelations you may experience may literally wipe your current slate clean and allow you to pursue your goals with absolute freedom when Pluto resumes direct motion in September 2018. Pluto will remain in Sagittarius until 27 November 2008. Pluto will retrograde back into Sagittarius for five months starting in June 2008 and then re-enter Capricorn in late November 2008.
For horary enthusiasts, continuing all month we still observe Neptune in Aquarius and Uranus in Pisces indicating that they are still in mutual reception.
Now down to the specifics of daily planetary activity.
The favourable days in September 2018 are:
Friday 3 September: Sun trine Jupiter. This is a beautiful alignment that can provide us with the inspiration and faith to get any new endeavour under way with enthusiasm and sincerity of purpose. Open an entertainment centre or have a huge banquet or festival today and it will go off like a rocket to the Moon. This is also a good day to get married, start new friendships and any project involved with gold, glamour or places of amusement or the publishing industry. It is also one of the better kind of planetary times to commence just about anything that is important to you. A new store or business opening today would do well if focussed on books, publishing, the travel industry or to do with the law. If you strive for success on a day like this you are likely to achieve your goal. This is also a good time to start an overseas holiday.
Also today, Mercury sextile Mars. This is a high energy day on a mental level so people will want to voice their opinions or be vocal about what they consider important. A good day to start a new business that requires huge doses of both intellect and muscle. Also a good time to take a hike, enter a marathon run, or join up with a group of young people to swap ideas on how to get fit and stay healthy. This is also a time to become organised with your filing system, conquer the mountain of paperwork and then let off steam later in the gym for some muscle flexing.
Monday 6 September: Saturn trine Pluto. Saturn is all about the established order and responsibilities, whilst Pluto is about transformation and elimination to start anew. We may see some interesting developments, probably in government areas, that affect the masses that incorporate new ideologies and ways to make long term productive changes to our lifestyle. This would be a good time to enhance what is already established, but with new concepts and ideas for improvement. Blending the old with the new is one way of putting it. Those seeking to purchase large properties will need to be in it for the long haul to gain success. On a personal level we can look at how we may improve on what we have and make solid and long range efforts to bring this about.
Friday 10 September: Mercury trine Jupiter. This angle promises those who strive to see the bigger picture will do so and teach those who listen how to find it themselves. A great day to start a holiday or travel to places previously unseen. This could prove to be a great day to start writing a new book, open a book store or one associated with the travel industry. People will generally tend to be liberal and broad-minded in their thinking and approach to life. Also a favourable day to start teaching, lecturing or writing a lengthy project. The area of communications and information will be busy and any business started today that connects with these will fare well. This is a good time for negotiations and for getting your message across. The advertising and news media areas will be highly productive. There could be a merger between two large organisations, companies or countries, that can benefit everyone involved. Expansion is the key-word for the day, so plan to make this as positive a time as possible. A busy day for the travel industry and the Internet.
Wednesday 15 September: Venus trine Pluto. This is a magnificent combination and can produce a great day for those seeking true love. I adore this kind of planetary formation. If you should happen to meet a new lover under this influence you will be radically changed overnight. This new person will seem magnetic and passionate. You may feel you have been put under a spell, and in a way you are right. This influence is deep, hypnotic and highly sexual, so expect to go into a relationship and become totally and intimately involved, and very quickly too. Also a good day to get married, start a new business enterprise especially if it involves regeneration themes, getting fit or to do with women’s products and services.
Thursday 16 September: Sun conjunct Mercury. This aspect makes some people get really focussed mentally while others just get flustered or frazzled by too much grey matter being stimulated. For those who like a fast pace in their daily routine they will sail ahead smoothly and swiftly. The others will have to do it again probably, and then they will get it right. This is called a combust situation, where a planet is so close to the Sun and the Sun can literally burn up the other planet. This can cause a congestion of information on telephone lines, faxes, e-mails and even face to face communications, where one person is just not hearing the other or cannot seem to reach an agreement or get their heads together on the same issue. Postpone any really important negotiations until a better day. Some people will enjoy a day like this and they will not be agitated by the influx of interruptions or extra communications because they will literally thrive on it. At least they will not have a boring day. The rest of us will be somewhat confused and exhausted by the end of the day and be seeking some quiet time away from the demands of this modern world.
Friday 17 September: Mercury conjunct Venus. This tends to incline people towards thoughts of love, harmony and peace. Some will write lengthy declarations of their feelings for the one they adore. Peaceful negotiations are highly likely for those who have the best interests of everyone at heart. A good day to have a celebration, throw a party, go on a special date, get engaged or married. Businesses that focus on communications and the elements of romance will fare well, such as greeting cards offering words of love and friendship. A day of love and poetry and light hearted fun and frivolity. Take time out today to enjoy some lovely music or pleasant scenery and you will be aligning your actions in accord with the romantic and peaceful vibrations of the heavens. Romantic attachments and friendships formed today will be free of jealousy or binding commitments. People will want to be carefree and concerned only with happiness and pleasure.
Saturday 18 September: Mercury trine Pluto. This would be a good day for private investigators or the Police to go digging for information to shed some light on a previously hidden problem. Archaeologists too could have a field day and uncover treasures they had been searching for, for years. Egypt may suddenly seem a great place to be. Any type of exploratory works or projects now will reveal something previously out of view. Writers can get focussed and produce good works.
Also today Sun conjunct Venus. This lovely alignment is great for getting married, engaged, starting a new romance, going on a first date, opening or investing in a florist shop, or anything associated with music, art, women’s products or decoration of any type. A big party held tonight will go down especially well. This is perhaps one of the better days of the whole year, so go out socialising and see what develops.
Monday 20 September: Sun trine Pluto. This can prove to be a great time to try to remake yourself or change your spots, if you need to. A day to spring clean, get rid of the old and outworn and be refreshed by the newness of starting out on a different path. Someone in power may take a gigantic leap forward or be presented with an offer that seems almost too good to be true, but it will ultimately change the course of their destiny. A wonderful day to get married or start a new enterprise that involves reform or renovation in some way. If you wish to pull down the walls and rebuild them, this is the best time to do it. New relationships formed today, whether friendship or intimate, will literally put your life into a different perspective and possibly change your own personal world forever.
The not so favourable days in September 2018 are:
Wednesday 1 September: Mars square Saturn. Not a day to start a new business or new friendship or romantic involvement, nor get married or buy a car or other important machinery for your business. Not the day either to invest money or get involved in foreign affairs or overseas interests. Bide your time in all important matters and do not buy a new home today.
Wednesday 8 September. Venus square Mars. This is a contentious aspect between Venus, the planet of love and harmony, and Mars, the God of War. This can be highly problematic when it comes to relationships. Men and women will generally speaking not see eye to eye, or they both have a totally different agenda. This is not a good day to have a first date, get engaged or married. There is too much potential discord and people only seeing the physical or exterior of each other rather than the true personality. Physical attraction will be the name of the game so if you are the sensitive, emotional and romantic kind, do not get involved with a new partner around this time as this is definitely not the roses and candlelight aspect. This is more than likely going to bring about hot and steamy encounters that often are not long lasting, though they can be if each person is highly evolved and mature. Advertising aimed at seductive techniques though could be highly rewarding and capture the necessary sexual fantasies of those who are vulnerable to such luring promises.
Tuesday 14 September: Sun opposition Neptune. Not the day to trust strangers, get involved in any project you know little about or to be trusting even with those whom you thought would never deceive you. Con artists will flourish today so make sure you know all the facts about someone before you even dare hand over a dollar of your hard earned income to them. There could be a big drug haul occur today and they may even get away with it, unless of course an insider wants to get them busted for a previous indiscretion involving a matter of trust that went badly wrong. Don’t get married today or start any new business for there will be hidden traps for the unwary or the gullible. This alignment is potentially very secretive and people are prone to be susceptible to major confusion. Some who are into swindling and scams will pull the wool over the eyes of those who are gullible and take everything at face value. There will be wolves hiding beneath sheep’s clothing. There will be many who will camouflage their true colours, so for those who are wearing blinkers, you may suffer at their hands. To put it simply, as I have said before, trust everyone, but cut the cake yourself. Drugs may be found in unlikely places or hidden by people whom you would not suspect. Just remember, no-one should be above reproach. Beware of danger or problems near the ocean, gas, oil wells, and take care that there is nothing contaminating your food or drinks. Poisoning can occur for the unwary. Friendships formed today need to pass the test of time before people are considered trustworthy. Someone in power may be on an ego trip, or trying to call someone’s bluff on a major issue. Do not trust strangers or any new kids on the block.
Also today, Retrograde Venus conjunct Saturn. (repeated from last month due to being retrograde). Not a good day to get married, start a new relationship or go on a first date. Any one of these will be productive of delays, limitations or burdens and other difficulties that will be hard to overcome. People will tend to be hard to reach or fathom or understand. Barriers that tend to divide will be more noticeable than usual. Do not start a new business today, especially if it involves women’s products, beauty, music or the arts. Not a good day to try to reach amicable agreements, especially with those near and dear to you. Some will tend to become disappointed in a big way. The air is filled with distance and coldness so don’t attempt to make up with your lover if you have had a fight, as they will not want to hear your plight and may just turn their back and walk the other way. Friendships and new romances will not get off to a good start and may involve heavy responsibilities later on or you find out you have to look after them more than is healthy. Not a good day to start a new business as the setbacks and delays may curtail your freedom and not be worth the effort applied.
Wednesday 15 September: Mercury opposition Neptune. This is one of those potentially deceitful days when people can easily colour over their mistakes and present a picture that is marred inside and out, if you would only lift the veil of elusion to view the ugly and distorted truth. It is wise not to sign any important documents on a day like this as there will be more loopholes than found in a fish-net. Those who generally tend to give people the benefit of the doubt will prove to be the most vulnerable. Do not believe all you read or hear today as there will be lies and deception running rampant.
Saturday 18 September. Mercury conjunct Saturn. This is not the day to make agreements as they may involve regulations and obligations that tie you up in knots. There could be some serious decisions made that affect people long after the present. The Mercurial influence could be darkened by sombre Saturn’s habit of making it difficult to see eye to eye and reach amicable agreements about any of these matters. However, those who are wise can instruct those who are not. Those who refuse to take a wider view will only alienate themselves from a comfortable position and find themselves on the other side of the wall. This though can be a good day for serious study. It is not good for purchasing land or other real estate. If you do, then make sure there are no potential problems to do with dampness or rising water levels in the area.
Wednesday 22 September. Sun conjunct Saturn. There are potential limitations imposed by this angle. This influence is not conducive for getting married, taking on a new job, starting a new business or even going for an interview. Chances are there will be problems, delays, restrictions or other depressing conditions to cope with if you try to tackle difficult problems on a day like this. No new ventures should be decided upon or started to avoid problems that could last for many years to come. This can be a disappointing day if you plan to make any significant personal decision that affects your well being and your future plans. This can have long-term ramifications so choose wisely. Not the day to approach the boss for a raise, as people in power are prone to be unreachable. There can be barriers or walls to challenge those who try to make peaceful negotiations, so refrain from these today where possible. An elderly person or a VIP may be in the news and showing concern for their safety or position. Someone in power or politics or royalty may lose their status or standing in the community.
Friday 24 September: Mars opposition Jupiter. This alignment can stir things up in the world. Don’t challenge the law courts today or take on a big project where you are expecting a favourable outcome. Chances are your energies will be wasted or misused or you will be incorrectly guided about a very serious and important matter. Avoid large groups of people or situations where things can be blown out of all proportion to the matter at hand. Not a good day to travel, so plan another day if possible. A judge or magistrate may have a contentious issue to deal with that will be difficult to dissolve and cause embarrassment to someone in a high position, perhaps even to themselves. Some people may go out of their way to make a big splash and could overdo in more ways than one. Unfortunately this can also bring some fracas within the legal system and those who uphold it, so stay away from those doing things to excess, lest you get caught up in their enthusiasm and get led astray and into the arms of the law. Some people who manifest the negative energies of this placement may feel that might makes right and clashes of muscles versus the law can erupt. Not the day to get married or form any other legally binding relationship. Not a day to buy a car or test your strength. Those who speed down the highway, may bring about untold misery for themselves and others.
Saturday 25 September: Mercury square Jupiter. Big plans made today may not fulfil your initial requirements, further down the road. If you order one hundred of something, it may turn out that you only needed five. The emphasis will be on expansion and learning, but the effort and enthusiasm will be just as big an ask. Commit only to what you are suited to, or else you could find yourself out on a limb in less time that you can say your name. It would be wise not to commit yourself to anything today that could bring you possible legal difficulties further down the road. People will over-commit or take on more than is wise and choke on it all at a later time. People cannot be trusted to do as they say or follow through on obligations.
Sunday 26 September: Retrograde Venus opposition Neptune (repeated from last month due to retrograde). This unhelpful alignment may lure some people who are planning to mix business with pleasure and this brings about disappointment, loss or other confusion due to outright deception or serious camouflage. It is not the time to commit to a relationship or even a friendship, for there is likely to be something glossed over that hides the real truth or some elementary ugliness. An apparent secure relationship may come unstuck and reveal a trail of dishonesty, treachery and lies. Those who live life on the surface and pretend to be happy will be faced with having to show their dirty washing and there may still be something lurking in their pockets. Check all facts and any new faces you meet today.
Those “faraway places” seem to beckon each of us from time to time. Some of us, of course, seem to have the travel itches more than others. (Do I see some guilty looking Sagittarians and Geminis milling around?)
It should come as no surprise that the vibes in some places seem to agree with us more than others. We’ve all noticed this when we’ve traveled. Conversely, there are places that just seem to make us terribly uncomfortable. There can also be places where we seem to have some terrible luck as well. One doesn’t necessarily have to travel many miles to have these feelings. It can happen in our own home town!
Many of us have had the sad experience of living in a city or town that we just hated and couldn’t wait to get away from. Perhaps the new destination was a great improvement, or it may have just put you from the frying pan into the fire! (Classic case of the grass being greener!)
DOES ASTROLOGY AFFECT THIS?
Our birth (or natal or radix) chart is the basic chart that is a map for our destination in this lifetime. It travels with us through life. We can update this chart by progressing or directing or transiting it. From this we find timing of events and we are able to predict events to come. The chart carries with it the birth PLACE as a basic energy.
But there is something else to be considered…..WHERE the events might take place! Can your moving from one location to another enhance certain events and help prevent others? Certainly changing locations could change some things if for no other reason but the timing of events. Therefore, there is a probable difference to the outcome.
Ancients used locational astrology without even realizing it. For instance, the Three Wise Men, who of course were three astrologers from the East, followed a certain star to a location where an event occurred. This was, of course, the birth of the baby Jesus. That “Star in the East” was their pointer.
The fate of nations has been predicted based on these types of locational charts. It is a form of astrology that is as old as Astrology itself. However, it has only been in recent years that astrologers have developed good techniques for relocating a chart for a person. So now when you travel, you can find out if you would enjoy Jamaica or Paris better. If you get a job offer in Watusi, you can consider your options a little more carefully with the tools we have available to guide you now.
One of the most common techniques for relocating the chart is to cast the chart for the new location. You would use the same time and date, but use the new location instead of the place you were actually born. The planets will be the same for the most part. However, the Midheaven, Zenith, and other angles will all be different in the new location. This difference will certainly change the makeup of your chart.
If you were moving from the East Coast to the West Coast, it would not be uncommon to have the Ascendant change signs. In fact, it would be most uncommon if it did NOT change signs. Since the Midheaven will also change, it is quite likely that your career options or desires would also be changing.
Planets in this chart will also be changing houses as well, and this too would show a different picture for you. Events now would be timing differently because of the difference in the angles. This means you might enhance certain events or avoid difficulty by being in a different place at a different time.
This is not to suggest that you won’t continue to have difficult aspects or difficult transits. It does mean, however, that the makeup of it all would be somewhat different because of the angles changing. What once may have been devastating to your career may not even be of any importance now. The same would be true with the favorable aspects – the timing and combinations would afford you different opportunities!
We’ll have a little fun! We’ll take all the signs and “relocate” them and see what we come up with. This is all in fun and not to be taken seriously. And, you can use either your Sun, Moon or Rising Sign with the texts below:
ARIES – These guys are always ready to go somewhere – and the quicker you get them there, the better! Just tell them where the action is – where the fun and excitement is! No relaxing, no laid back laying around for these guys! Lets’ get ON with it (And by all means, take them to the MARS line of their choice!)
TAURUS – Now here is the guy that can lay out and do absolutely nothing. Well, almost nothing. Just make sure that there is plenty of gourmet food, gourmet wine and gourmet sex and you will have one happy cow…err, bull…err, friend on your hands…err, well, hanging out at your place! In other words, keep the bull on his Venus line!
GEMINI – Now you know before you ask that they are not going to be happy with just ONE selection! They gotta go to two or three places and they need to do lots of different stuff when they get there! Bring lots of books and puzzles (that they won’t have time to read or work! ) One thing never lacking when you’re with a Gemini – and that’s lots and lots of fun! And if Gemini is on his Mercury line, watch out!
CANCER – Just show them their moon lines and hear them express, “Where is the best place for some good business? And what about my family? I want the best possible location for the children! What do you mean that they’re on the other side of the continent? I don’t want to go somewhere without my family! By the way, do they serve chicken soup in this place?”
LEO – The lion yearns for someplace where his talents can be appreciated. He prefers someplace he can be the boss, and be in charge! The nice thing, of course, is that the lion is really and truly very qualified to run the show! So point him to where his Sun line is running these days and he’s off and running the show. And what’s more, you’ll be safe if you’re with him!
VIRGO – Primly propped upon her Mercury line, Miss Virgo is overheard saying, “Well, is it clean? I certainly wouldn’t want to go to one of those places where they…you know, don’t bathe regularly! So where in the world is my ‘clean line’? And may I have a look at the map please? Perhaps you need a little analysis of this situation. After all…”
LIBRA – “Where is my LOVE line? Just show me to the men! You mean you can look at that silly map and actually tell me where I might score? Why didn’t you tell me about this a long time ago! Do you realize how much time I’ve been wasting? Just imagine, a place in the world with my LOVE line going through it!” – Thus quoth Miss Libra when ensconced upon her Venus line!
SCORPIO – Naturally, the scorpions are going to look for their POWER line. Show them a map and they will go for that Pluto line every time! Interestingly, enough, they generally gravitate to it on their own. But Scorpions can smell a deal a mile away. Of course, I’ve seen a few intense looks from them when I explained that they could also find some pretty good sex as a by product. They’ll head for the Mars line every time!
SAGITTARIUS – Well, you might know that anything concerning astrolocality literally FASCINATES our Sagittarian friends! They THRIVE on travel, and you provide them with a map to show them where they might have a little fun and good times, and they are already packed and half way to the airport. Jupiter’s children love to be on his line in a map!
CAPRICORN – Cappies are not too inclined to spend money chasing dreams. They’re much too practical to waste their assets on these things. However, if you tell them they can really isolate areas where they are inclined to do very well in business and make a lot of money, you can see the glisten come to their eye! Their Saturn lines are where they work hard but usually make money as well!
AQUARIUS – “Geez, let me look at that map some more. Kewl! Look at all these wavy lines. I like the colored ones! So why don’t you put some neon on this thing and really blow it up? You know you could probably computerize this thing and do some really fantastic stuff if you put your mind to it!” Thus, the ravings of an Aquarian on his Uranus line!
PISCES – Our lovely Pisces friends get so enthusiastic when they find out that they can actually pinpoint their path of greatest spirituality. Their lovely eyes literally light up! Of course I always hate it when I have to tell them none of these lines on these maps will show them where the closets are! That’s when they up and cancel the trip. (They are probably ALREADY on their Neptune line!)
Have you ever thought of how we place certain items in our homes or space and have a feeling of inspiration when placing a particular item or piece of furniture in a room? We are living Feng Shui subconscious already. Feng Shui is the Chinese art and design of placement in a living space. Feng Shui encompasses all areas of our lives ranging from relationships, health, happiness and prosperity. You may also be intrerested to get some feng shui tips for year 2018 .
Relationships are a wonderful piece of Feng Shui used to enhance our lives. Recognition and placement of items in our bedrooms and homes are used to bring the love, excitement, joy, and romance we desire into fruitation.
Beginning with placement of furniture and items in the bedroom can be a wonderful place to start incorporating Feng shui into your life. As you enter your bedroom look to the rear right hand corner of your bedroom.
This is the relationship corner of your bedroom. What is in this area, a picture of a single person? An unhealthy plant? Dirty Laundry? When we begin to recognize these chi blocks we can start to change and bring the love, joy and happiness we desire into are lives. After cleaning this corner, think of what you are wanting in your relationship.
Do you want a relationship with yourself? Single items will encourage a relationship with you. Possibly needing some time to regroup after a prior relationship. (Truly when you love yourself you are able to love someone else more deeply) Our ability to love ourselves enhances our chi and attracts loving people to us. Do you want to enhance your current marriage or partnership, or do you want to attract an enriching, romantic, loving, new Relationship?
When placing your personal icons, two of any items together will reflect Partnerships. Two swans, two geese (mate for life), two mandarin ducks, two tigers (excitement) A romantic art picture or statue of two loving partners is an excellent choice. When placing your Icons please remember to tell the universe what you want to bring into your life. This is called setting your intention. Example, Universe I am wanting a loving, romantic, exciting, supportive partnership. Expressing your desires is a great way to set the energy into motion.
When looking to attract someone new or rejuvenate your existing partnership look to see if your bedroom is feeling over crowded, too much furniture for the amount of Space. Is their room for a new partner to fit into your life? Closet space for two? Clearing out the old items that seem to keep us in the past can be very beneficial in helping us to allow something new into our life. When we simplify and make room on the physical level are emotional level will follow.
When placing your bed it is important to have a solid wall behind your headboard. This will encourage confidence and feeling supported in life and in your relationships. If you are unable to have a solid wall behind your bed make sure to have a headboard on your bed.
Check to see if your door is in direct line with your bed, this can cause sleep disturbances and imbalance. Place the bed as far away from the door as possible, but allowing visibility of the door from the bed. This is called the power or command position. When placing your furniture around the bed, make sure to have two nightstands with a light for each stand. This will give a healthy balance and enhance equal partnerships.
Feng Shui is truly a wonderful way to enhance, balance and rejuvenate relationships. These are just a few suggestions that may help you along your journey with Feng Shui.
Ah, love. There’s nothing quite like it. The birds sing sweeter, the sky is bluer, and nothing can get you down. It’s the best feeling in the world, isn’t it? Makes you want to dance in the streets and sing zip-a-dee-doo-dah!
But don’t kid yourself. Loving someone doesn’t mean you like them all the time. Think about your folks for a moment. They love you, right? But they still punished you and yelled at you. Lots. Especially when you were a teenager. But they never stopped loving you, even at the times they wished you would just move out. And on the flipside, there were plenty of times you weren’t too happy with them, but you loved them too, right?
So don’t panic when you feel like popping your boyfriend in the mouth for making some dumb comment, or you want to wring your girlfriend’s neck for dinging your car—AGAIN. It doesn’t mean your relationship is over. It just means the pixie dust has worn off. You know, that pixie dust that keeps you from being annoyed at things that usually annoy you. If you’ve ever caught yourself saying things like: “I know I usually hate axe murderers, but he’s just so cute!” – you’re on the dust, big time. Eventually, you snap out of it.
You see, no matter what they say in poems and soft rock songs, love really doesn’t change you that much. If you’re a selfish spoiled brat, you become – a selfish spoiled brat who someone loves. If you’re a neat freak, you always will be, even if you fall in love with a slob. And guess what – you’ll always fall in love with a slob. It’s why I’m convinced that whoever is up there has a warped sense of humor. That, and the fact that Carrot Top still has a career.
No one ever falls in love with the easy ones. But they’re boring anyway. Admit it. If you don’t have enough in common, one or both of you gets dragged to a lot of stuff that the other is interested in, all in the name of love. Do you honestly think any guy wants to go to Crate and Barrel? (Except THOSE guys, I know.) Then again, if you’re too much alike, you’ll get on each others’ nerves eventually. Think about it. Taking love out of the equation, what happens when you put two bossy people together? Or two stubborn people? Or two know-it-alls? Ugh.
So, if you avoid the “opposites attract” thing, and stay away from people too much like you, where does that leave you? Alone. But while it’s fairly obvious to see the problems on both sides, there are millions of people out there who it works for every day. You’ve seen it for yourself. And you’ve even wondered – how did the staunch feminist fall head-over-heels for the uber-jock? How can those two spend their lives finishing each other’s sentences? How?
Face it. For love to really work, you have to work at it sometimes. But even that isn’t as tough as it sounds. You just have to remember what you love about the person you’re with. That’s it. No counseling, no Dr. Laura books, no heavy lifting or rocket science. Just remember why you fell in love. How you fell in love. All the stuff that made it possible for the both of you to disagree (LOUDLY) over where to put the couch in the new place you just got together.
Couples fight. Fact of life. No matter who you are, you’ll never agree with any person in your life 100% of the time. You fought with your folks. You’ve fought with your siblings. You fought with your best friends. Those fights, those disagreements, those whatevers – they’re all just little tests. If you really love the other person, you’ll get over the grudge. You’ll actually want to make up. And even though it doesn’t make you 100% happy, you’ll compromise. If you don’t love the other person, well, I think we’re all grown up enough to know what happens there.
This leads me to one of the WORST things ever said about love. This dumb phrase gets more couples into more trouble every day than cheating, alcohol, and fights over the remote. It is:
“Love means never having to say you’re sorry.”
WHAT??? Whoever said that was hopped up on some high quality crack rock. I know, I know, it’s supposed to mean all kinds of stuff – if you’re in love, you’ll never do anything to be sorry for or; if you’re in love and do something wrong, your significant other will KNOW you’re sorry, so you don’t have to say it. Puh-leese. Turn off the harp music, and tell that chubby kid with the wings to sit down. If you’re in love, you’ve probably said sorry more than you ever had in your entire life. Not because you’re a wimp, or a screw-up, or don’t know how to be in love properly – but because you actually care about this other person’s feelings. And I don’t care where you’re from, sorry is one of those things that HAS to be said out loud. Get used to it.
So anyway, back to my point.
Sometimes you won’t like the one you love.
Sometimes, love is work.
But you don’t get in trouble for sleeping with your co-workers.
ARIES (March 20–April 19)
The stakes in the relationship game may be going up for you now, Aries. If you’re undecided about someone, you might consider letting go. Let’s face it, this is a time to jump in full force or not to play at all. Without serious commitment you could just be wasting time.
TAURUS (April 20–May 20)
An eclipse in your house of intimacy means that some big changes could be heading your way. This is a good time to reconsider some of your basic principles about relationships. You may have more success when you’re willing to adjust your expectations and goals.
GEMINI (May 21–June 20)
A Solar Eclipse in the partnership area of your chart can close an important chapter in your life now, Gemini. It’s better to let go and get a fresh start elsewhere, if you’re not on a fulfilling relationship path. Sometimes, we have to go backwards to move forward.
CANCER (June 21–July 22)
Expect to be feeling a little frisky at the beginning of the week. Enjoy the romantic emotions that can turn an ordinary task into a playful adventure. Put your desires first, Cancer, instead of making them secondary to someone else’s happiness now.
LEO (July 23–August 22)
This week’s New Moon eclipse falls in your house of romance. Hmm, that should shake things up a bit. Maybe you need some new kinds of fun now, Leo. Take some chances to explore new territory and unknown feelings. Playing it safe is much too boring for you now.
VIRGO (August 23–September 22)
Shaking things up at home might not feel comfortable, but can be good for you. Move your furniture and your life might move, too. Get out of all the ruts you can find, even if it means that you feel a little lost for awhile. Exploring is better than being in control now.
LIBRA (September 23–October 22)
Some unexpected news could change your social plans. But don’t be bummed, Libra, this will just free up time for other things. It’s an opportunity to go to new places and meet new people. Who knows, you might not have to go far to make a sweet connection this week.
SCORPIO (October 23–November 22)
Invest some serious time or money in yourself this week, Scorpio. Clothes, dance lessons, yoga or maybe a new haircut are all ways to increase your value. The more you like yourself, the more others will, too. Use your resources for a personal upgrade now.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21) A Solar Eclipse in your sign is a major event this week. At worst, it can be a loss of status. But, on the plus side, this might show you how to update your image. This is more than superficial change, it’s a chance to see yourself in a new and more exciting way.
CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19)
If you have something on your mind now, Capricorn, don’t keep it to yourself. Confide in a friend, rather than letting thoughts stir in your head. Once they’re out in the open, you can start to take action, which might help you turn around a difficult situation.
AQUARIUS (January 20–February 18)
Joining an organization is a good way to enjoy yourself and, maybe, meet someone new this week. Focus on the activities of the group, rather than your personal needs. That way, you’ll feel successful whether you make a romantic connection or not.
PISCES (February 19–March 19)
Focus on your responsibilities this week, Pisces. That doesn’t mean that you can’t have a personal life, but taking care of business comes first. Leave yourself plenty of time for work, since last-minute surprises can arise that will require even more of you now.
ARIES (March 20–April 19)
Someone you connected with in the past is either back in your life or on your mind this week. If there’s any action to be taken, it’s best to do it cautiously. Slow and careful steps are more likely to build something lasting than moving too quickly now.
TAURUS (April 20–May 20)
Leave some time for pleasure early in the week, Taurus. It may be a long, slow dance, but you can enjoy every step. Make this a sensual time by enjoying all the colors and flavors of life, then you’ll find pleasure in the most unexpected places.
GEMINI (May 21–June 20)
The relationship game could pick up speed for you midweek. That’s when the Moon falls in your house of partnership, increasing the odds of making a meaningful connection. Someone from a faraway place could have the key to your heart.
CANCER (June 21–July 22)
Taking on a new challenge could be good for you this weekend, Cancer. Meeting someone while you’re testing your limits is a way to get down to basics quickly. You get to see who people really are when performance is more important than looking good.
LEO (July 23–August 22)
The Moon hits your house of romance on Wednesday. This is no guarantee of love, Leo, but it certainly increases the odds of you having a good time. Just be a playful lion and you’re likely to find someone friendly who wants to play with you.
VIRGO (August 23–September 22)
Your fairly serious mood could brighten up big time by this weekend, Virgo. Sports and games can be a good way to meet someone new. Just be careful about becoming so competitive that you chase away a person who might be interested in you.
LIBRA (September 23–October 22)
Staying close to home might be your best move this week, Libra. You could even meet someone interesting in your own neighborhood. Consider inviting a special person to your house, or just hunker down and enjoy yourself with Ben and Jerry.
SCORPIO (October 23–November 22)
You can find some extra confidence this week that helps you take a few chances. Stretch your boundaries, Scorpio, and you might find a delightful experience or two. Show a little more of yourself and the world may show a lot more of itself to you.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21) You might want to complete some unfinished relationship business this week. Closing off an episode from the past might not be fun, but it clears the way to a brighter future. Face the hard stuff now and you’ll probably have more fun later.
CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19)
It’s all about straight talk this week, Capricorn. A direct conversation about personal matters can go a long way in opening up your eyes to something important about yourself. There’s no need to be defensive. Listen, learn and you’ll reap the benefits.
AQUARIUS (January 20–February 18)
You look your best when you’re in a leadership position this week. Just let your natural enthusiasm put you out where people will notice and appreciate you. If you enjoy what you’re doing, the best parts of you are going to show you at your best.
PISCES (February 19–March 19)
Look in a new direction to spice up your social life this week. Join a special interest group or get involved in community work. Broadening your horizons increases your chances of meeting somebody new, so break some habits and break new trails.
ARIES (March 20–April 19)
Facing your past can be challenging early this week. You may not like what you see, but the truth can set you free. Don’t accept abuse from anyone, yet face your shortcomings with a commitment to change. Love can then flow more easily in your direction.
TAURUS (April 20–May 20)
You might be pushed out of your comfort zone this week, Taurus. But maybe what you call comfort is really a rut. Don’t be afraid to make deep changes now. The process can be difficult, but it may be the surest road to improving your relationships.
GEMINI (May 21–June 20)
You may feel forced to make a choice now. Putting all your attention in one direction could be what it takes to make love work in your life. Don’t rush it, Gemini, since this decision is so important to your relationship life, but you will need to make a choice.
CANCER (June 21–July 22)
If you’re not getting the reaction you want from others this week, it’s not necessarily your fault. You’re not doing anything wrong, Cancer. It’s just that the world around you is less than open. Spend time with those you trust to get back on a solid foundation.
LEO (July 23–August 22)
A warm smile and a big hello are not enough to make an impression this week. If you want to connect with someone, take plenty of time to be with this person. Stay away from the crowds, if it’s intimacy you’re seeking. Sincerity counts double for you now.
VIRGO (August 23–September 22)
Quiet conversation is what you need to feel your heart come alive. The action is not out there where everyone can see it, but in the private where real feelings are expressed. The little things are what makes you attractive now.
LIBRA (September 23–October 22)
If you’re not feeling as attractive as usual, be kind to yourself now. You may want to make some changes, but being negative won’t help. It looks like there are some serious matters that need to be discussed before relationships get back on track.
SCORPIO (October 23–November 22)
Your willingness to deal with delicate matters can make you attractive early this week. You feel reliable and trustworthy, so may draw people to you. This is an important step in deepening relationships that could last for many years to come.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21) Your playful ways may not be appreciated as much as usual now, Sag. Showing your serious side, though, will get a better response. People want to know how you really feel, rather than watching a show. Going deep is what it takes to get closer this week.
CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19)
This is your chance to finish old business, Capricorn. Clean up any loose ends with people now. That may improve a current relationship, but can also make space for a new one. You know exactly what you need to do to turn things around, so get going.
AQUARIUS (January 20–February 18)
You might get pulled into someone else’s relationship dispute. This is not a productive place to be, Aquarius. Back out, if you can, so that you can attend to your own love life. Making hard decisions can set the stage for a new relationship to come.
PISCES (February 19–March 19)
You understand a complicated person who is a mystery to everyone else. This can bring you closer to this individual. Whether romance or just friendship, it is a relationship worth having. Take what you can from it, even if it’s not everything that you want.